The Newest Sexual “Disease” ISD

“Not tonight, dear.”   That’s the common way of expressing a low libido.  Now there’s a clinical name for it:  inhibited sexual desire ISD, which simply means sex does not turn you on.

How can you tell if ISD is serious?  “Time is the key,” explains behavioral therapist Debora Phillips.  If you haven’t been “in the mood” for a long time, she says, you may want to see a sex or marital therapist to help you deal with any underlying psychological problems that may be causing your problem.  Short-term therapy is usually all it takes to restore arousal.

Most of the time though, ISD is a sudden situational event, which can be traced to one of the following causes.

  • Emotional stress
  • Marital conflicts
  • Childbirth
  • Loss of love for your partner
  • Illness or medications
  • Drinking drugs
  • Inadequate sexual stimulation
  • Hormonal changes.

The good news is that a weak sex drive can usually be strengthened once these factors are resolved.

Lembrame2010

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Six Tips for Buying Shoes

“Many people don’t know how to buy shoes.”  says Norman Klombers, D.P.M. “Most women buy them to please their eyes, not their feet, with thin soles that offer little to no protective cushions.”

Here’s what you need to know.

  • Allow a thumb’s width between the end of the big toe and the tip of the shoe when buying footwear.
  • Have your feet measure while standing and, since almost everyone has one foot that’s bigger than the other, fit the large one.
  • Always try shoes on before buying, since manufacturers’ size differ.
  • Buy your shoes in the afternoon, because your feet swell a bit during the day.
  • Don’t buy those you ‘need to break in.”  Shoes should feel comfortable when you first try them on.
  • Buy only leather or fabric shoes-they let your feet breathe and conform to the shape of each foot.

Lembrame2010

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ADIOS OR NOT?

Before you rush off to have 50 copies of your resume typeset, take some time to clear your head and do some rational thinking, says Dr. Weinstein.  “Evaluate the situation; think of what you could do differently at work, where you could expand.”  He has some other tips you should consider before you decide to leave your job.
  • Find new ways to contribute at work.  What can you do to make your job more interesting?
  • Ask for feedback from your boss and co-workers.  You may be under-estimating how well others view your performance.
  • Look into areas of possible future growth.  Is there room for a possible promotion?
  • Don’t neglect interests outside of work.  Find activities that give you satisfaction and enjoyment.
  • Lessen exposure to stressful aspects of the job by changing the format of your day.  For example, if your job requires extensive phone work, set aside 2 hours of each day for paperwork to give yourself a breather.
  • Schedule personal time.  This could be one day a week or an hour a day to do with you as you please.

Don Barone

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Expand your Eating Awareness

“If we expand our awareness about eating, we can take care of 99% of digestive problems,” says Deepak Chopra, M.D., an endocrinologist in Stoneham, Massachusetts, and author ofCreating Health. Dr, Chopra recommends the following good eating policies.

  • Whenever you’re going to eat or drink-even if it’s just a peanut or a swig of juice – put the food on a plate or the drink in a glass, take it to the table and sit down. Eating should be a conscious act, not just something you do every time you walk past the fridge.
  • While you eat, turn off all distractions, both internal (worries) and external (radio,TV, books,magazines). You should enjoy the food.
  • Give your complete attention to the food. Enjoy the taste, be aware of the aroma and all the flavors-sweet, sour, salty, bitter, astringent and pungent.
  • Be aware of the speed of which you’re eating.  If it’s hurried, slow down.
  • Before you eat, ask yourself if you are hungry, on a scale of of 1 to 10. Many times, you eat you just because you see the food there or because the clock says it’s lunchtime-you’re just following some automatic cue.  You eat and afterward you feel ill.

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Lembrame2010

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The Seven Best Disease Fighters

Develop these 7 healthy habits today to help prevent disease tomorrow.

  • Pass up the butter and other fats.  Low-fat meals help fight breast, ovarian and colon cancer.
  • Shed excess weight.  It helps avoid diabetes, heart disease and varicose veins.
  • Exercise regularly.  Regular weight bearing exercise helps prevent osteoporosis, the brittle bone disease that strikes 1 in 4 women.
  • Treat yourself to a cup of yogurt, as well as some skim milk or low-fat cheese.  These high-calcium foods keep bones strong.
  • Slather yourself with sunscreen.  It’s the number one defense against skin cancer.
  • Practice early detection.  Monthly breast self-exams done at the same time every month help detect breast cancer early.  Yearly Pap smears can protect you from cervical cancer
  • Eat more organic Foods
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